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Naomi Mabin Carroll

01/23/1929 - 11/19/2023

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Obituary For Naomi Mabin Carroll

We’re called to honor the life of Naomi Mabin Carroll, who after 94 years spent on earth, went home to the Lord’s Kingdom on November 19, 2023. Before we reminisce on her life, let us acknowledge our feelings. Not solely our sorry and brief, but remember her warm embrace, her joyous smile, and gratitude for every moment spent with our loving Matriarch. Consider the sadness you feel about missing her, a reflection of the infinite deposits of love she poured into all of us. Because while that’s what we’ll miss the most, it’s also what can never leave our hearts.

Naomi was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania on January 23, 1929, to Bessie Mabin and Augusta Mullens. Early in her youth, her family moved to New York City. Tragedy struck when Naomi was 10 years old, as her mother unexpectedly passed away. But thanks to Bessie’s seven loving brothers and sisters, Naomi would only know a life of love provided by her aunts and uncles who immediately took her in. While they all showered her with love, it was her aunts Penny and Frances “Siss” Mabin who, in Naomi’s words, were in charge of everything when it came to her. While living on 113th Street in Harlem, Naomi attended Wadleigh High School for Girls. She also began working at the laundromat owned by Aunt Sissy.

During this time, Naomi met Arthur Carroll. The two fell in love, got married in 1946, and had their daughter, Audrey soon after Arthur’s return from serving in World War II. In 1954, Naomi, Arthur and Audrey became one of the first tenants to move into an apartment in the then-new Alfred E. Smith Houses in New York City’s Lower East Side neighborhood. The couple raised Audrey here before amicably separating, but the apartment would lay a foundation for the family for generations to come.

It’s here in Smith that Naomi would evolve into Granny, as she dedicated her time to being a grandmother to Audrey’s daughter, Antoinette. Watching over her while Audrey worked, teaching her countless life lessons, and raising her until Antoinette eventually had two boys of her own, Terrence and Trent. Naomi nurtured her boys just as she did her girls. She was Terrence’s first best friend, supporting his dream of becoming a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle. She also supported Trent’s early love for basketball, becoming the first rebounder, both in the hallway and in P.S.I. park.

But Naomi’s dearest relationship was with her loving daughter, Audrey. An inseparable bond, they laughed, cried, occasionally disagreed, and loved on each other. Alongside beloved cousins like the late Andrenna Deloatch and her daughter, Avra Holley among other loved ones, they famously enjoyed taking trips to Atlantic City Las Vegas, to see the shows of course, and spent time making memories of their New York City lives.

In 2009, Naomi and Audrey moved to Dover, Delaware for a change of pace from New York City and to spend more time with Antoinette and Trent. It’s here that Granny continued her role as the surrogate grandma and great-grandma to Trent’s teammates and her extended family members alike.

Naomi Mabin Carroll was preceded in death by her parents, Bessie Mabin and Augusta Mullens; husband, Arthur Carroll; uncles, Ed Mabin, Nathaniel Mabin, Abraham Mabin, Wallace Mabin; aunts, Helen Mabin Frances, “Siss” Mabin and Penny Hart; her life-long friend, Rosemary Sumpter and her husband, Burrel “Bubba” Sr.; son-in-law, Burrel “Butch,”, Jr; cousins James Hart, Sr. Barbara Brown, Herbert Hart, Andrenna Deloatch and her grandson, our beloved, Porter.

Naomi Mabin Carroll leaves to mourn, her daughter, Audrey Carroll Sumpter; granddaughter, Antoinette Watson and her husband, Terry; great-grandsons, Durrell Watson and his partner, Tkiera, Terrence Watson and Trent Watson; great-great-grandsons, Carmelo Watson and Camari Watson.

A multitude of loving cousins and extended family members are also left to mourn, including, Karl Mabin and his wife, Kim, and their daughter, Taja; Sheila Hart and companion, Marcus, their son, Tahiem Hart, daughter, Shelia Hart Jr., and granddaughter, Sienna; Ron M. Brown and his wife, Elaine and their children, Daniel and Barbara, Jacqueline Coleman, James W. Hart, Jr. and his wife, Geneva and their twin sons, Famous and Jaylen, Cherie Hart and her son, Aamir, Latoya Hansly and her daughter, Cassidy; Talib Bey and his wife, Brend and their daughter, Attiya, Avra Holley and her son, Omari, Tjade Johson, Jacqueline Sumpter-Heath and her children, Heather, Quincy and granddaughters, Taylor and Rosi, Margaret Watson, Sonya Watson, and daughter, Brianna, Pamela Watson and her husband Shahid, and sons, Bryce and Braxton; best friends Edith Brooks, Trina Barwicks, Clifton Jones and his wife, Romona and their son, Clifton, Jr.; and many more.

Forever in our hearts, we’ll love you by every name, Naomi Mabin Carrol, Cousin Nene, Grann, Mommy, Matriarch.

Services

5 Dec

Interment

Delaware Veterans Cemetery (Millsboro DE) 26669 Patriots Way Millsboro, DE 19966 Get Directions »
5 Dec

Visitation

09:00 AM - 10:30 AM

Bennie Smith Funeral Home of Delaware (Dover) 717 W Division Street Dover, DE 19904 Get Directions »
5 Dec

Funeral Service

10:30 AM - 12:00 PM

Bennie Smith Funeral Home of Delaware (Dover) 717 W Division Street Dover, DE 19904 Get Directions »
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