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Emory Tommy Hicks

08/20/1962 - 09/04/2023

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Obituary For Emory Tommy Hicks

Emory Tommy Hicks departed this life on September 4, 2023, in Dover, Delaware, surrounded by family, friends and loved ones.

Tommy, as he was affectionally known, was born on August 20, 1962, to Thelma Ellen Norwood and Howard Hicks. Tommy was raised in Felton, Delaware, with one older sister and three younger brothers.

Tommy graduated from Dover High School in 1981. While attending Dover High, Tommy played many positions on their High School football team. After graduation, Tommy enlisted into the United States Army and later the United States Army Reserve until retiring honorably after more than twenty years. During this time, Tommy earned his Bachelor of Science degree in accounting and retired from the military as a First Sergeant.

After retiring from the military Tommy began his career with the Department of Defense as an Administrative Officer, where he continued for over fifteen years until his untimely death. His total military and Department of Defense (DOD) service spanned over 40 years.

During his residence in Hawaii, Tommy began his martial arts training which lasted over four decades, attaining the highest possible rank in Kajukenbo. He was also the hand-to-hand Combative Instructor for the Army’s Modern Army Combative Programs. During this time, Tommy trained hundreds of students and produced many fine practitioners.

Tommy was preceded in death by his parents, Howard Hicks and Thelma Ellen Norwood.

Tommy is survived by his wife, Nonny and daughter, Engel Hicks of Hawaii; one sister, Deborah Lewis (David); three brothers, Miles Hicks (Fely), Jeffrey Hicks (Orlanda) and Luke Hicks. He also leaves a multitude of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Tommy will be truly missed!

Services

16 Sep

Visitation

11:00 AM - 12:00 PM

Union Baptist Church 883 Lincoln Street Dover, Delaware 19904 Get Directions »
16 Sep

Funeral Service

12:00 PM

Union Baptist Church 883 Lincoln Street Dover, Delaware 19904 Get Directions »
18 Sep

Interment

11:00 AM

Delaware Veterans Cemetery (Millsboro DE) 26669 Patriots Way Millsboro, DE 19966 Get Directions »
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  • 09/14/2023

    My deepest condolences. Working with you over the past 20+ years has been an incredible journey. I am going to truly miss you. I pray for peace and comfort for your family. A Hui Hou. Rest in Love and Paradise.

  • 09/13/2023

    Emory, you will be truly missed by all who knew you. From all those ARMY TDYs to Korea, to also working with you in DPW, you were always the most easy going, gentle giant. Gonna miss you brother! RIP!

  • 09/13/2023

    Emory was not only a devoted Husband and Father, he was also a devoted Soldier, serving his Country and his Soldiers in an exemplary manner. He will be missed by all those lives he touched while here on God's Green Earth. Rest in Aloha, My Brother!!!!

  • 09/13/2023

    My Deepest Condolences to Luke and the Hicks Family from Candace and Curtis Simpson. May God Keep You Strong In His Love.

Tributes

  • The Peace Lily

    The Peace Lily was sent for Emory Tommy Hicks - 09/15/2023

  • Red and White Handled Basket

    Timothy Schiller sent Red and White Handled Basket for Emory Tommy Hicks - 09/15/2023

    Mililani High School Army JROTC Battalion gives the Hicks family our thoughts of deep and sincere sympathy are with you at this time. LTC Schiller, 1SG Rice and the Cadets of the Trojan Battalion.

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Why is having a funeral ceremony important?

Throughout human history, and around the globe, people have gathered together to acknowledge the death of a member of the community. No matter who the deceased was, a funeral ceremony is the one (and sometimes the only) opportunity for everyone to come together to acknowledge their death, recognize the community's shared loss and share the burden of grief.

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How does the cost for a funeral ceremony compare to the cost of a memorial service or celebration-of-life?

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Is it necessary to have flowers at the ceremony?

Flowers create a background of warmth and beauty which adds to the dignity and consolation of the funeral service. "Necessary" may not be the right word; but there's no doubt flowers at a funeral or other end-of-life ceremony serve many valuable purposes including a means of a visual expression of sympathy, love and respect or a means of lending support.

What's involved in preparing the body for viewing at a visitation or funeral?

The preparation of the deceased can involve a number of different tasks performed by trained and licensed embalmer and restorative artists. Without going into too much detail; the body is temporarily preserved by embalming, refrigeration, or a combination of the two. It is washed, dressed and otherwise groomed; then placed in the chosen casket for viewing. Should you wish to know more about the process, contact us. There are also many excellent articles online describing the process in greater detail.

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Human beings are interesting creatures: sometimes we need to see in order to truly believe. It's a way of confirming the fact that, indeed, this individual is dead; but it's also an opportunity to say your "good-byes". You may find it a cathartic time where you can quietly share a long-held secret, let go of any anger or resentment, and otherwise come to terms with their death.

How can I best prepare my children to attend a funeral?

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What is a celebrant?

The Celebrant Foundation and Institute define celebrants as "trained professionals who believe in the power and effectiveness of ceremony and ritual to serve basic needs of society and the individual. The Celebrant's mission is to help the client create a ceremony that reflects his or her beliefs, philosophy of life, and personality." A life-cycle celebrant is especially valuable when a family has no religious affiliations or ties to a clergy person or minister who can officiate the funeral service, but involving a celebrant in the funeral planning process has been found to enhance the funeral experience for all concerned. "The Celebrant comes to the table with no agenda," shares the Institute's website, "and no preconceived notion of what the ceremony should or must look like. Instead, through careful interviewing, the Celebrant elicits what is meaningful for each client." If you think hiring a celebrant is the right for your family's situation, contact us for more details.

How long is a funeral service?

Simply put, "it depends on the service". Just as no two movies or novels are the same length or cover the same emotional ground; no two end-of-life ceremonies are the same.

Must I wear black to the funeral ceremony?

Black used to be the only color to wear to a funeral; but not anymore. Today things are less formal than they once were, and it's not totally uncommon for families to ask prospective guests to altogether avoid wearing black clothing. Should you have additional questions about funeral attire or etiquette, please contact us.

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