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Dennis James Gillcrese, Sr.

06/24/1954 - 03/24/2024

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Obituary For Dennis James Gillcrese, Sr.

Dennis James Gillcrese, Sr., was born on June 24, 1954, in Monroeville, Pennsylvania, to the late Anslem Gillcrese and Verlan Hawkins. He was one of eight children, four of whom preceded him in death; two older siblings, Alberta and Rhoda and his two younger brothers, Anslem, Jr. and Roy. On March 24, 2024, Dennis departed this life to be with the Lord and loved ones gone before him.

Despite having such a large family, his parents ingrained good values amongst all of them. “Always be respectful to others, treat folks right, work hard for whatever you want in life, last thing to live and enjoy life”. Dennis would pass these values on to his sons.

Dennis was educated through the Pittsburgh Public School system and graduated from Gateway High School in Monroeville in 1973. Shortly thereafter, Dennis attended the Indiana University of Pennsylvania. While in college he met Brenda Webster whom he married. They had two sons, Dennis, Jr. and Reginald.

Later in life, Dennis enlisted in the United States Navy. He reached the rank of Petty Officer, served 23 years, and was honorably discharged in 1997. While in the Navy Dennis and his family were able to live in many different places like Texas, Virginia, and New York. The place he was most fond of living in was Naples, Italy. Dennis spoke about their experiences often while he served the country.

After retiring from the Navy, the Gillcrese family settled in Dover, Delaware. Dennis worked for DSWA for a few years as a Compliance Officer before switching over to the Dover Police Department as a 911 dispatcher. He came back to DSWA as a weighmaster up until his final days.

In 2016, Dennis met his new love, Kendyll Hill and they hit it off instantly. They became engaged two years later. The two were inseparable and enjoyed going on cruises together, shopping, or just getting in the car and asking whether we go North or South. Thrift shopping was one of his favorite things to do.

Dennis was a huge Pittsburgh Steelers fan and enjoyed sports betting. He also enjoyed going to Bally’s Casino where he was well known and liked by many of the staff. He knew the drink attendants, slot attendants, and hostesses by name as they knew him. His favorite game was Caveman Keno which he could make a hundred dollars last for hours.

My father like “Zorro” was a man of the people, to be more specific he’d say in his voice, “I fight for the people!” He valued friendship, connections, and family, and loved helping folks who were down on their luck or not in a good mood he’d be there to cheer you up. He treated everyone with respect and dignity no matter who they were. I’m looking at a lot of sad faces and can honestly say don’t be. My dad would say, “Don’t cry over my grave when I’m gone. Celebrate the life I lived, and damn, I lived a heck of a life.” Honor his life by living yours to the absolute best of your abilities and to the fullest.

Cherish those around you because you won’t see them again when they are gone until it’s your time. Reflecting on the memories of Dennis will keep his spirit alive in each of us here in this room. He will be greatly missed and loved by so many. Parting words that my father would say are these, "I’ll see you soon” and “That’ll do!”

Dennis leaves behind those to cherish his memory and love, his fiancé, Kendyll Hill; Dennis, Jr. and his fiancé, Nicole Miller Ross; Reginald and their mother, Brenda Webster Gillcrese; brother, Walter Gillcrese and his wife, Bridget; sisters, Hellen Gillcrese Wilkerson, and Roslyn Jean Gillcrese; grandchildren, Kalice Gillcrese, Savanah McDonald, and Lane Lewis Gillcrese; Kendyll’s children, Candice, Elijah, and Zanaria; her grandchildren, Zion and Zakari, who affectionately called him Grandpa Dennis. Dennis also leaves those to cherish his memory, all his casino friends, route 10 WAWA employees, DSWA family, Mikal Waring, Kenya Tate; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins

Services

6 Apr

Visitation

12:00 PM - 02:00 PM

Bennie Smith Funeral Home of Delaware (Dover) 717 W Division Street Dover, DE 19904 Get Directions »
6 Apr

Funeral Service

02:00 PM

Bennie Smith Funeral Home of Delaware (Dover) 717 W Division Street Dover, DE 19904 Get Directions »
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  • 04/06/2024

    My condolences to the family of Dennis. Didn't know him except at DSWA, where he made it a point to greet myself and family, on our weekly visits. From our limited encounters, it was evident that he was raised correctly, and will be very much missed - every week. Eternal energy and love is being sent.

  • 04/04/2024

    Dennis, I can't believe this has happened. You will be missed by many, with that big smile and laugh. We all have lost a good friend and co-worker. Rest my friend. Jerry

  • 04/04/2024

    Dennis always gave me smiles acceptance & comforting hugs. Those are moments that I will always hold in my heart. Reggie you are in my thoughts during this heartbreaking time. Love, Jo Joanne O'Neill

  • 04/03/2024

    Dennis, you will be missed by all the employees and everyone that came through the scalehouses at DSWA. You were a true joy to work with. May you rest in peace with all the Angels up there with you. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....Steve Lowry PTCTS

  • 04/01/2024

  • 03/29/2024

    To the love of my life. Words can't explain this pain I feel right now. Nothing could told me that this would be the end. My heart is forever broken. I will love you for the rest of my life. You were a truly wonderful man. Whom I loved wholeheartedly. Thank you for loving me the way you did. I will cherish your love forever. This has been five of life. Sometimes it feels as if I can't catch my breath.. I know you would want me to okay. Just want you to know that I truly love and miss you. Thank you so much giving and showing me real love. Love alway your Woman.

  • 03/29/2024

    You gave no one last farewell nor ever said goodbye. You're going before we know it and only God knows why 1 million times we will miss you 1 million times we will cry you hold a place. No one else can ever fill. Our hearts is broken our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone us is with you God took you home. May you rest in peace your sister-in-law misses you and your brother-in-law never be forgotten Mr. laughter and the good Times.

  • 03/29/2024

    Dennis was a great person I was a good friend Dennis help me though my hard times... He was a great supporter!!! He's really going to be missed !!!!Love from your good friend Catherine

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